Wishing

I wonder if Buddhists, at least American Buddhists who likely come into Buddhism having emerged from a religion previously experienced, carry into it a form of asceticism. That form of fake humility that thinks sacrifice is noble. Not that sacrifice isn't, but not all of it is.

I was ruminating this morning, as I am wont to do, on some verses in the Heart Sutra. I ran across this line:

"Wishing: in gladness and safety, may all beings be at ease."

That one word "wishing" say a lot. It means to long for, to desire. Which I think is something that people might tend to think we shouldn't be doing. I'll get to the text in a minute, but i want to focus on this word, because we need to be free in regards to it. We need to allow our desire and longing to be free.

I have been taking in the content of The Secret lately. I have also been reading Wayne Dyer's materials on intention. Both of them require that one desires. Particularly in The Secret, they emphasize worldly possessions as something to be desired. Meaning, we are free to do so. I think that most Buddhists of the American stripe might say that these types of desires would lead one into materialism, and they might, regardless of the religious system or beliefs one holds.

I also make it a habit to read my schools supplication to it's masters. One of those verses says the following:

"Revulsion is the foot of meditation, as is taught.
To this meditator who is not attached to food and wealth,
who cuts the ties to this life,
grant your blessings so I have no desire for honor and gain.

It seems like I have already contradicted myself, but I don't think I have, and I'll tell you why. Note the overall context that the last line appears in. The two important words are "attached," and "ties." That is the crux of the problem when it comes to functioning in the material world, the apparent reality. So the term desire has to be seen in that context of attachment and ties. So does that mean that if there is no attachment or tie, that there is no desire? I don't believe so. How else would one explain the works of various monks like Thich Nhat Hanh, Sogyal Rinpoche, and Trungpa Rinpoche who open retreat centers and other kinds of facilities the world over? What drives their vision? A lack of desire? I don't think so. I think it's an unattached desire.
Think about it, and we'll move on to the rest of our text.

Now the text I have has a colon after the word "wishing." I'm not certain that is in any original text, though i wouldn't bet against that. I have great respect for the accuracy that Buddhists maintain in transmitting their teaching, and translating them from their original languages into English. Even so, what I am trying to point out is this: look at he the first phrase as if the colon wasn't there. "Wishing in gladness and safety...."

That means to me that the wisher needs to be in a state of gladness and safety. Or maybe I should say, that is an option to strongly consider. Why? Because it is obvious if you spend any time pursuing the teaching of the Buddha, that it is apparent that you cannot give something to someone you don't have yourself. Which means that if I want others to be glad and safe, I must see to it that I am that way first, so I can show them how it is done. It brings us back to the old proverb, "Give a man a fish, and he eats a meal. Teach him to fish, and he eats for a lifetime." What is necessary is that I know how to fish to teach another person how to do it. Which returns us to wishing. I need to wish for that gladness and safety, and learn to live in that state.

"...may all beings be at ease." Ah, the fruit of our wishing. This also lets us know if that gladness and safety we think we have is genuine or not. If we aren't at ease, it isn't. The opposite of ease, is of course, dis-ease. No pun intended either. Most Buddhists would affirm that dis-ease in the body came from dis-ease in the mind first. Which is the crux of The Secret. "As a man thinks, so he is." I like the scope of this verse: "all beings."

The rest of the sutra pretty much describes what that means, so i won't elaborate that here. I'll just say that if we want a real exercise in where we are at in our path, just start with your family members and co-workers. Do you want, really long for,and desire, that all your family and colleagues be at ease? or are there some you don't care about either way? Maybe even some you think should pay some form of penalty or suffering for their weird dysfunctions which you and I of course don't share? Well, then obviously we aren't totally in a place of gladness are we? Or safety, because we are harboring to some degree, dis-ease in our mind. Don't be down though, because we all go through this. Realizing this is evidence that the wheel of the dharma is turning inside you. And that is very good.

So let's recap. It's okay to wish. We want to wish free from attachment, which also means detaching from family and co-workers. We should investigate our own gladness and safety, and as we gradually establish ourselves in it, we can then extend that wish to others, with the result that we all are at ease.